In the spring of my sophomore year, I was in the middle of my school soccer season, and on the team chat, I got a link to this program called Athletes for Kids that I’d never heard of. Instantly, I signed up, not knowing just how special this program truly is. Later that year, in the fall of my junior school year, I got matched with my buddy, and I was shocked by how much I underestimated the positive impact AFK began to have on my life.
Every week I get to have 2 hours where all I have to think about are the new game we’re playing, discovering a new trail on our bikes, or building paper airplanes. These moments are often the highlight of my week, especially in the dreary winter months or during the grind of spring. I know that last spring I told my buddy family that I have so much going on right now, but when I was told that I could take a break if I don't have the time I truthfully responded, “this is my break.” because in that time of overload, 2 hours of making somebody else’s life better made my life better.
Athletes for Kids to me is beyond fulfilling, it makes my heart and brain happy, helping me succeed in life. Additionally, I get the opportunity of watching my buddy grow socially, emotionally, and mentally, which is an opportunity most high schoolers don't get, and for that I am grateful.
Mentee Parent
My son has been paired with his mentor, Isaac, for almost a year, and their relationship has been truly special. Most of their time is spent at home playing games, which my son looks forward to each week. Sometimes they branch out to visit the arcade or local cafes (but only the ones with board games). Isaac even came to one of my son’s choir concerts, which meant the world to him.
I appreciate how Isaac follows my son’s lead with patience and encouragement. As an elite soccer player, he could easily outshine my son in physical activities, but he strikes just the right balance, making challenges fun without frustrating him. If my son does become frustrated or dysregulated, Isaac handles it calmly and with maturity. Despite a demanding schedule of AP classes, work, and soccer, Isaac shows up fully as a mentor, and it's clear that he also enjoys the break to have fun and relax. His commitment and consistency are truly impactful.
Having a weekly meet-up to look forward to makes a big difference as my son faces shifting friendships moving from elementary to middle school. Since he doesn’t see his dad often, having a positive male role model in his life has also been especially meaningful. We’re so grateful to have another year with Isaac before he heads off to big adventures after high school, and I know it will be filled with more memories and, of course, lots of games!